Ukuba iGrinch ingayiba iKrismesi, olu bhubhane lusithintela ekubhiyozeleni ngokupheleleyo iiholide zasebusika eziseleyo. Kuyavela ukuba eli lelinye ixesha lokulinda. Ngokweengcebiso zamva nje zikarhulumente, ukuhamba ngeeholide akukhuthazwa, kwaye iindibano zedijithali zibonakala ziyindlela elumkileyo yokunxibelelana nabahlobo kunye nosapho.
Ukuba ufuna ukusingatha eyakho imiboniso bhanyabhanya, nceda ukhumbule into ekufuneka uyiqwalasele. Ekubeni uncwadi lwe-Emily Posts lungagubungeli imisitho ebonakalayo, siqhagamshelane nabafazi abane abamkela iindwendwe saza sabanika iindlela ezilungileyo zokubhiyozela ii-cocktails zedijithali, ii-jam sessions kunye nokunambitha iwayini. Isilevu, ezantsi ukuya phezulu, kwaye uqhubeke ufunda.
Njengomyili weminyhadala, waziwa ngendlela yakhe "yokwenza umzamo ube mbini". Kangangexesha elide, uGardner ebebonelela ngezixhobo kubanini beminyhadala abafuna ukudala ubusuku obungalibalekiyo. Ifilosofi yakhe ibandakanya iipateni zeepateni, iintyatyambo ezingapheliyo kunye nokudlala. Kule ntwasahlobo, wavula ivenkile yakhe yendlu kunye netheko kwi-intanethi, apho unokufumana khona zonke izinto azithandayo-imigca yesiPhuthukezi, iiglasi zeMurano kunye nezixhobo zeminqwazi yephepha ukuze wonwabele ngakumbi. Nazi iindlela ezilungileyo zikaGardner.
Ndicinga ukuba kuhle ukuba ukuhlanganisa abantu kwihlabathi liphela bacinge ngeendlela zokuqhubeka nesiko leeholide. Nangona kunjalo, ndiyoyika isimemo sokuba ndithathe inxaxheba kwimicimbi ye-intanethi. Kukho ubunzima kwezobuchwepheshe, uze uhlale phambi kwesikrini sekhompyutha ukuze utye kwaye uzive uloyiko. Ndicebisa ukuba ezi ndibano ze-intanethi zihlale zimfutshane kwaye zimnandi, kodwa zikhumbuleka ngokulinganayo. Kutheni ungahlanganyeli nabahlobo kunye nosapho kwi-toast yangaphambi kwesidlo sangokuhlwa kunye neefowuni zepati yokulala?
Cwangcisa imenyu ekhethekileyo, khuthaza ukupheka kweqela, uze ulungiselele ii-Zoom calls ezimbini ngexesha elimiselweyo ngaphambi nasemva kwesidlo sangokuhlwa. Zilungiselele malunga nemizuzu engama-30 ngaphambi kwesidlo sangokuhlwa nangokuhlwa kamva ukuze zingaphazamisi ukutya kwakho.
I-Paperless Post inoluhlu olupheleleyo lweepati ezikwi-intanethi. Ungabandakanya ikhonkco elithi "zoom" kwisicatshulwa. Ndiyazithanda iindlela ezikwimifanekiso kaHappy Menocal (ukwenzele amakhadi emenyu amahle evenkileni yam).
Besisoloko sijonge kwindawo enye kangangeenyanga kwaye ukuhombisa iitafile yindlela entle yokudala imeko-bume yemibhiyozo. Oda iintyatyambo! Nciphisa izibane! Nxiba isibane! Nokuba iqela lincinci kangakanani na, ungavumeli nantoni na yonakalise ulungiselelo lwetafile yakho. Ungabonisa imihombiso yakho ngexesha le-Zoom call, kodwa nceda ungasebenzisi "imvelaphi ye-photogenic" ngaphandle kokuba iyamangalisa kwaye iyamangalisa.
Ndingumfundi kaPriya Parker (wabhala esithi “Ubugcisa Bokubutha: Indlela Esihlangana Ngayo Nesizathu Sokuba Kubaluleke”). Umninimzi kufuneka ahlale esazi ngesiganeko, nokuba sinjani na. Le yindlela yokwenza umsebenzi ube nentsingiselo.
Kulo nyaka, isitshixo kukucwangcisa kwangaphambili nokwenza imizamo, kuba iifowuni zeZoom zisetyenziselwa iintlanganiso zeshishini. Nxiba umnqwazi wasendle, imibongo yothando enomtsalane, okanye uvumele abantwana bacule iingoma ezihlekisayo. Nayiphi na into yongeza iipancakes. Ukuthumela iimaski kunye neminqwazi yepati ehlekisayo, okanye ezi cookies zepati, ezinezacholo zempahla, kunye nomdlalo omnandi wegumbi lokuhlala ofana nothi “Zenza ngathi unyibilikisa ikhephu”, kumnandi kakhulu. Ewe, izalamane zakho zinokukwenza oku ngovuyo.
Ukuya kwisidlo sangokuhlwa sika-Aeron Lauder kukufunda ubugcisa bokuziphatha. Umyili owazuza umbono kamakhulu wakhe woyilo kunye nendlela yakhe yokuncokola wabelane ngobulumko bakhe kwincwadi entsha ethi “Rizzoli”. Uthe ukuzonwabisa kufanele kube lula kwaye kube mnandi, nokuba yikofu kubantu ababini abalele ebhedini okanye ukonwabisa amalungu osapho asondeleyo kwisidlo sangokuhlwa. Iindlela ezilungileyo zikaLauder zezi zilandelayo.
Eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokubamba umsitho obonakalayo kukugcina ubumfihlo kunye nobumfihlo. Ukuba sifunda nantoni na ngeli xesha, ndicinga ukuba oku kubaluleke kakhulu ekuqwalaseleni iinkcukacha. Ndithanda ukusela iti yasemva kwemini nabahlobo kunye nosapho. Le yindlela entle yokuphelisa usuku.
Andinakuxoka, andikabi ngumntu ofanelekileyo ukusebenzisa iZoom, oonyana bam basenokufuneka bandincede ekulungiseleleni esi siganeko. Kodwa ngoku sivakala ngathi yindawo elungileyo yokunxibelelana, ukudibana nokudala iinkumbulo ezintsha.
Kwiti yasemva kwemini, ndicebisa ukuba ubeke kwangaphambili yonke into onokuyidinga—iseti yakho yeti, iswekile kunye nobisi. Ndisebenzise uthotho lwam lweti lweGinori 1735 Granduca kutshanje. Ndisoloko ndinevase encinci egcwele iintyatyambo kunye nesitya esigcwele itshokholethi exutyiweyo ye-edelweiss. Ndisebenzise ivase yethu entsha yeLattea kuyo yonke inkqubo yokuvalelwa kuba yenziwe ngeglasi kwaye ibukeka intle kuyo nayiphi na indawo. Emva koko, ndicebisa ukuba ubilise amanzi ngaphambi kokuba umsebenzi uqale ukuze ukonwabele ixesha kunye neendwendwe zakho. Unganxibelelana nazo kwangaphambili, ukuze kungabikho mntu usekhitshini ngexesha lomnxeba.
Ndingumntu odla umhlala-phantsi kwaye ndisoloko ndizithanda izimemo kwii-imeyile, kodwa kwimicimbi ebonakalayo, izimemo zedijithali zibonakala zifanelekile. Ndithanda ukwenza izimemo zedijithali ezenzelwe wena ukuze ndenze abantu babe nomdla kwesi siganeko. Ndithanda ukusebenza nabapeyinti bemifanekiso efana neHappy Menocal, Kinshippress kunye neClementina sketchbooks ukuze iindwendwe zizive zikhethekile kwaye zinomsebenzi wezandla.
Ndisaqhelile ukwenza izinto ezikwi-intanethi nokufunda iindlela ezilungileyo, kodwa ndicinga ukuba ukuba nemvelaphi efudumeleyo nenomtsalane yeyona nto inefuthe. Nanini na xa ndineendwendwe ekhaya, ndifuna zizive zikhululekile kwaye zonwabele. Ke ngoko, ndijonge ukudala imeko-bume ebonakalayo ehambelana nale ngcamango. Xa ubambe itheko leti, ndicebisa ukuba usondeza ukusuka kwigumbi lokuhlala okanye ekhitshini. Beka ilaptop ecaleni kwetafile, ungabeka neeseti zeti kuyo.
Nokuba kwenzeka ntoni na, ukufika ngexesha kuyakhuthazwa rhoqo. Sinezinto ezininzi ekufuneka sizenze ekhaya, ngoko ke enkosi nangaliphi na ixesha onokuya ngalo.
Nanini na xa ndizonwabisa, iincoko ezinomdla nezinomdla zibalulekile ukuze uchithe ubusuku obumnandi, ngoko ke kubalulekile ukuvumela wonke umntu athethe. Esi sesinye sezizathu zokuba ndiziva ndinamandla okubamba imisitho emincinci neyobuhlobo. Ndicinga ukuba kubaluleke kakhulu ukuseka unxibelelwano oluthe ngqo neendwendwe zakho nokuzenza zizive zahlukile. Ndisoloko ndithanda ukuzisa amabali obuqu kunye neenkumbulo kwimisebenzi yam ukuze iindwendwe zizive zisekhaya. Ufuna neendwendwe zakho zikwazi ukunxibelelana nabanye.
Ndisoloko ndisithi njengomninimzi, ukuphumla nokonwaba kubalulekile, kuba iindwendwe ziya kulandela umzekelo wakho. Ndicinga ukuba oku kusasebenza.
Ndidla ngokuzibekela imizuzu engama-45 koku, kodwa nokuba kunjalo, kuya kuphela ngokwemvelo. Ngokwamava am, iindwendwe zihlala zifunda kwimikhondo ephelayo.
Ndisoloko ndithanda ukushiya isipho esincinci kwindawo yokutyela yomntu wonke. Oku koko ndikufundileyo kumakhulu wam u-Estee Lauder. Ukuze ndiqhubeke nale siko, kunokuba ngumbono onomdla ukuthumela isipho esincinci kuzo zonke iindwendwe, nokuba kukukhanyisa amakhandlela ngexesha lomsitho, izixhobo zebhari zokwenza iziselo zazo, okanye ne-napkin ye-monogram. I-AERIN isandula ukusebenzisana ne-Social Studies, ebonelela ngezinto ezifunekayo zokubeka zonke iitafile ezintle emnyango wakho. Ndiyayithanda ingcamango yokuba wonke undwendwe wamkela iipleyiti ezifanayo, ii-napkin, iiglasi, njl.njl. ukuze enze amava adibeneyo.
Okubaluleke kakhulu, njengomgcini-ndwendwe, kufuneka uhlale ulula kwaye uyonwabisa. Abagcini-ndwendwe badla ngokulwela ukugqibelela, nto leyo engelula ukutsala ingqalelo yabantu. Eminye yemisebenzi emihle endiye ndaya kuyo ayicwangciswanga kwaye ilula. U-Estee Lauder wayesoloko esithi: “Lo gama nje kuthatha ixesha, yonke into iya kuba ntle.” Esi sicatshulwa sisafanelekile kwihlabathi lanamhlanje elibonakalayo.
Njengomsunguli we-Virtual With Us, u-Alex Schrecengost ulungiselele iinkqubo ezigxile kwiwayini ukuze oogxa bakhe kwezoshishino kunye nabahlobo bonwabele kunye. Abathengi bakhe baqala kwiinkampani zeFortune 500 ukuya kwimibutho emikhulu engenzi nzuzo ebamba amatheko angokuhlwa. Zonke iindwendwe zakhe ziya kufumana iwayini ebhotileni kunye newayini efanayo ngaphambi komsitho, emva koko zingene ukuze zincokole ngokuhlwa okumnandi kwaye zibe nethuba lokufunda ngewayini abayiselayo. Nazi iindlela ezilungileyo zeSchrecengost.
Sisebenzisa iZoom. Kulula ukuyisebenzisa kwaye ayifundeki lula kwabo bangayaziyo. Okufunekayo yilaptop (okanye ifowuni ephathwayo) kunye nomthombo wokukhanya olungileyo ukuze ukwazi ukubona ubuso obuhle bomntu wonke.
Ungathumela uluhlu lwezinto oza kuzithenga ukuze ufumane iiwayini ezilula ukuzifumana, okanye ezingcono, nceda usebenzise thina! Sakha uluhlu lwazo zonke iiwayini, ibhiya, iziselo ezinxilisayo kunye neziselo (ikofu/iti) ngaphakathi. Ndisebenzisana ngokusondeleyo nabasasazi, abathumeli kunye namaqabane okuthengisa kulo lonke ilizwe ukuze ndifumane iimveliso ezizodwa, kwaye ndiyakuthanda ukuzithumela kuwe.
Sikhuthaza ukubiza abantu abasebenzisa iwayini. Sifuna iindwendwe zethu zizive zikhululekile xa zisela iwayini kwaye zifunde kwindawo eyomileyo, eyomileyo okanye egwebayo. Ukuba ubambe itheko lewayini ekhaya kwaye awukwazi ukufumana iinkonzo ze-sommelier, ungadlala indima ye-sommelier kwaye ufunde imbali yesiselo esithile osiselayo, okanye uthathe inxaxheba kwingcaciso ye-master sommelier yokungcamla iwayini.
Iinyani zibonakalise ukuba iyure enye yeyona xesha lilungileyo, nangona ukuba wonke umntu unexesha lakhe elikhethekileyo, uza kuhlala ixesha elide, ngokuqinisekileyo siyakukhuthaza oku.
Eyona nto ilungileyo ngewayini kukuba kulula kangakanani ukuba idibanisa abantu. Kulula kakhulu ukudibanisa iwayini nencoko, ngoko ke sithetha ngokutya kunye nenkcubeko ethandwayo ukuze wonke umntu abe mnandi kwaye abe nomdla ngakumbi. Ukongeza, abantu bayawathanda amabali amnandi kunye namabali malunga newayini abayiselayo, ngoko ke babelane ngemibono ethile malunga newayini okanye usapho oluphethe iwayini.
Njengokuba usiya nakweyiphi na itheko, nceda ulinganise imeko yomntu wonke kwaye uzame ukwenza wonke umntu avule ikhamera. Oku kutshintsha imeko yentlanganiso iyonke kwaye kunceda wonke umntu ukuba asebenzisane. Cwangcisa intlanganiso eyonwabisayo yokuqhekeza umkhenkce ukuze uzalise wonke umntu ngemeko yolonwabo, efana nale: zeziphi izinto abantu abazithandayo ngexesha le-COVID, okanye iprojekthi abaziqhenyayo ngayo, nokuba ixakekile isebenza kwaye ifunda. Kwakhona, hleka! Xa ungaqinisekanga, nceda wenze kube nomdla. Ukuba wonke umntu unokuhleka kunye, ngoko wonke umntu uya konwaba.
Ngokungafaniyo neetafile zokutyela, sinemvakalelo yokwazi ukuba iphela nini. Imalunga nokuziva igumbi lakho elibonakalayo nokubona ukuba abantu basancokola kwaye banxibelelana na, okanye ukuba bajongeka bediniwe.
Ungacebisa ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba iindwendwe zakho zibe netshokholethi kunye netshizi esandleni kwaye zitye phakathi kwazo. Iglasi yewayini ehambelana ngokugqibeleleyo isoloko imnandi ngakumbi.
Njengomseki weClub Club Global, uSolano ubamba imisitho yeveki nganye kwiqonga lokusasaza bukhoma iTwitch. Umboniso wakhe ubonise iitalente ezahlukeneyo, kubandakanya ukusonta iiDJ, ukusebenza kwabaculi, ukufunda iimbongi, kunye nobugcisa bevidiyo. IClub House Global yazalwa ngexesha lobhubhane ukuxhasa indlela iiDJ kunye nabaculi abangenakunxibelelana ngayo nabaphulaphuli ngendlela yendabuko. IClub House Global yiklabhu eyamkela wonke umntu. Iindlela ezilungileyo zikaSolano zezi zilandelayo:
Eyona nto imnandi ngayo yonke le nto kukuba ukusasazwa kweendaba kungenziwa ngokukhululekileyo okanye ngokugqibelela ngendlela othanda ngayo, kuluhlu olubanzi!
Ungasebenzisa amaqonga amaninzi ukusasaza bukhoma. I-Twitch ilungile ngenxa yokukwazi kwayo ukuvumela unxibelelwano ngexesha langempela, ukwenza inkqubo yakho ibe mnandi, kwaye ikubonise uluntu olukhulu olusele lukhona kusasazo olubukhoma. Ukongeza, okukhona ukhululekile kokukhona kungcono! Indalo yonke yeTwitch ikhuthaza ukuziphatha okusondeleyo, okungacwangciswanga. Oku kusinceda sitsale abaphulaphuli kwaye senze itheko libe nomtsalane kubo.
Kwii-apps ezininzi zokusasaza bukhoma, uya kufuna i-WiFi elungileyo kunye nesixhobo esinekhamera eqhagamshelweyo. Uninzi lwabantu lucinga ukuba inyathelo elilandelayo lilula njengokucofa iqhosha elithi "bukhoma". Nangona kunjalo, kuxhomekeke kubukhulu benkqubo, kunokuba nzima ngakumbi. Ukuba unguDJ okanye umsasazi, uhlala ufuna i-interface yesandi, efana neGoMixer okanye iRig. Kwaye kungcono ukufaka nokufunda i-OBS (iSoftware yoSasazo oluVulekileyo). Ukuba ufuna ukufumana ubuchwepheshe obuphezulu, njengathi sikwiClub House Global, uya kufuna abaguquli betekhnoloji abafana nomsunguli wam uPatrick Struys. Ukuba unencoko ebukhoma (nokuba kukwiTwitch, IG Live, Facebook okanye Youtube Live), unokufuna umlawuli onokuqinisekisa ukuba incoko ihlala isebenza kwaye ifanelekile. Iqabane lam lesithathu kunye nomvelisi ophetheyo u-Anjali Ramasunder kwi-CHG yingcali kule ndawo. Sonke sinxiba iminqwazi emininzi, kuba indawo yokusasaza bukhoma ikwi-wild west, udinga zonke izandla zakho kwidekhi.
Ungathatha imikhwa emininzi efanayo ye-IRL xa uceba ukukhuthaza ukuhamba kolwazi lwakho. Yila iiflaya, thumela ulwazi kwimidiya yoluntu, uze uthumele ulwazi ngeencwadana zeendaba, imisonto yemiyalezo, njl. Xa ugqiba ukuba ufuna ukusasazwa kwevidiyo kuqale nini, cinga ngexesha labaphulaphuli kunye nokuba kwenzeka nini ezinye iinkqubo ezibukhoma. Kwaye ungalibali ukongeza ikhonkco ngqo kukusasazwa kwakho!
Uvavanyo lokusasazwa bukhoma luyatshintshatshintsha kwaye alunakuqikelelwa. Le yinto ekufuneka uyiqhele. Ayisebenzi njengomsitho we-IRL. Abantu baza kuvela ngequbuliso baze babuyele kumjelo wakho. Ezinye iinkqubo zihlala iiyure ezimbini, ezinye zihlala iiyure ezingama-24. Kuxhomekeke kwi-bandwidth yakho kunye neenjongo zokusasaza. Umzekelo, ngaba ufuna ukuqokelela imali? Okanye uchitha ixesha nabahlobo? Ngaba unabo ooDJ/abaculi abali-10 abalungiselela ukwenza omnye ngeyure nganye, okanye nibabini? Ngamanye amaxesha, eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokufumanisa eyona ifanelekileyo kuwe kukuyivavanya!
Wakuba unabaphulaphuli, nokuba kwigumbi lakho leentlanganiso leZoom okanye kwiqonga likawonke-wonke, ufuna ngokwenene ukwamkela wonke umntu. Yazisa abaphulaphuli ngento abayilungisayo, kwaye ubanike imephu yenkqubo. Khumbula, abantu baya kuvela ngamaxesha ahlukeneyo, kwaye kungcono ukukuvuma oko.
Xa umntu ekwimakrofoni, abaphulaphuli abaphilayo basabela kakhulu. Ingakumbi xa uthetha ngqo nencoko, uphendula imibuzo, uphawula ngomculo odlalwayo, njl. Yicinge njenge-podcast ephilayo. Umsasazi olungileyo uya kukwenza uzive ngathi ningabantu ababini kuphela egumbini. Abaphulaphuli baya kuthuliswa, ngoko uninzi lonxibelelwano luya kuba kwincoko. Vula izimvo kwaye ungawahoyi nawaphi na ama-troll.
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Ngokubanzi, ngaphambi kokusasaza, kufuneka ube neshedyuli enzima yexesha lokusasaza bukhoma. Ingakumbi ukuba ufuna ukukhuthaza inkqubo kwangaphambili. Ukongeza, ukuba uceba ukusasaza rhoqo imidiya ukuze wakhe abaphulaphuli abakwi-intanethi, ufuna ukusasaza imidiya ngexesha elifanayo neyure kanye ngeveki.
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